Someone always ask me this question so, I woke up this morning wondering where I could get the definition of what true or fake love is.
I then sighted this write-ups on online on the subject. I quoted it below to form the background of my write up.
“When people are in love, it can be hard for them to identify true love from fake love. There are so many stories of people who have got their hearts broken because of fake love. Loving someone with all your heart and soul is not something to be ashamed of. It is, however, important to know how to distinguish pure love from false love.
Fake love is when a person only worries about himself. Your partner should be able to make big sacrifices just to make you happy. There is selflessness in true love and if you think that’s not present in your relationship, it might be time to let go. Another sign of fake love is when a person lies in your face without feeling any type of remorse at all. Fake love is short tempered as well. It doesn’t endure or forgive your mistakes and shortcomings. A person who truly loves you will never get tired of giving you many chances and will never give up in times of misunderstandings. There is also humility and kindness in true love.
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From what you have read, you could now be wondering if your partner is in fake or true love with you or not.
Many people fall victims in this fake love web for many reasons some which are but not limited to: physical appearance, economic and social status.
For example, when a woman is very beautiful, she could attract a lot of fake lovers who necessary might not love her truly but will just want to have a taste of that beauty. When a man or woman is financially worthy, they most at times attract fake lovers who might only want to feed on that worth to help solve financial problems hence appearing to love which in actually fact, they are not.
The end result of these two examples are that the fake lover ends up breaking the heart of the other partner.
However, if both partners are in fake love it hurts none of them but when one is in true love while the other is in fake love, this is where we have casualties like serious heart breaks, suicide and physical revenge such as stabbing, acid attacks or severe beatings. Some live permanently with the trauma and would never want to fall in love again for the fear of meeting the wrong person.
People that have never fall victims in this fake love web often than not can’t understand why someone should committee suicide and or attack the other partner with acid or kill them. Other also employ spiritual or phonographic revenge.
We must know that in the event of heart breaks, the victims suffers serious psychological injury and become very emotional and loses touch with the really of existence of another meaningful life again. They become more or less like abnormal beings.
We must also understand that we are have various capacities to which we can absorb pain where physical or psychological and therefore it is wrong for you to critics or mock a victim at the time that her or she is going true those trying moments.
What we should be doing as members of society is to provide counselling and enough reasons why these victims must see another meaningful life after those storms.
To be continued….
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Share your comments and advise you might help who might be going through heart break.
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By: Efo Korsi Senyo